Thrive in 5 - Motivation / Productivity / Success

32: The “Learned Skill” Mindset for Personal Growth

Cindy Gordon Season 1 Episode 32

In this episode of Thrive in 5, we explore the learned skill mindset. Discover how viewing challenges as skills in progress can boost your confidence and resilience. Learn to tackle setbacks as essential feedback, commit to consistent practice, and embrace continuous growth. Apply this mindset to any area of your life and unlock new potential. Start seeing every challenge as an opportunity to grow! 

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Introduction to the Learned Skill Mindset
[00:00:00] Want to unlock new potential? In today's Thrive in 5, I'll share how adopting a learned skill mindset can help you tackle challenges, master new skills, and keep growing with confidence.

[00:00:12] Today we are learning about the learned skill mindset. This mindset is all about seeing every challenge and unfamiliar task as something you can learn, rather than something you're naturally good or bad at. Shifting to this perspective helps you tackle anything with resilience and curiosity.

[00:01:06] So let's explore this mindset and how it can change your approach to growth and help you thrive.

Viewing Challenges as Skills in Progress
[00:01:12] The first part of adopting a learned skill mindset is viewing each challenge as a skill in progress. Instead of thinking, I'm just not good at this, try saying, this is something I'm learning. Whether it's something big like public speaking or something small like organizing your day.

[00:01:31] Approach it as a skill you're developing over time. This shift from labeling things as strengths or weaknesses to seeing them as skills takes away the pressure of perfection. Each time you try, you're reinforcing the skill, which helps you progress at a steady pace.

Embracing Setbacks as Feedback
[00:01:49] With a learned skill mindset, setbacks are no longer failures, they're essential feedback. Learn if you didn't succeed on the first attempt, that's okay. Every setback is a chance to gather information. Ask yourself, what worked? Or what could I adjust next time? This helps you become more adaptable and resilient.

[00:02:12] Instead of getting discouraged by what didn't go well, you'll start seeing obstacles as part of the skill building process. This attitude fuels continuous growth and allows you to stay motivated even when things aren't going perfectly.

The Importance of Consistent Practice
[00:02:28] Skills take time to develop, so committing to consistent practice is crucial.

[00:02:34] When you're adopting a learned skill mindset, remember that improvement comes through repetition and patience. Choose small, actionable steps that you can incorporate regularly, whether that's practicing public speaking in front of a mirror, spending a few minutes each day organizing your space.

[00:02:52] Consistency is the secret sauce in skill building. Each small effort compounds over time, and you'll see growth in areas that you once thought were out of reach. This mindset helps you remove the pressure of needing to be naturally talented, and it opens up space for learning and progress. By focusing on skills and something to be practiced, rather than innate traits, you're giving yourself a journey of continuous growth.

Applying the Mindset to All Areas of Life
[00:03:24] The best part? You can apply this to any area of your life. Relationships, work, personal hobbies. Every experience becomes an opportunity to develop something new. A learned skill mindset also helps you stay open to new possibilities. When you see everything as a skill in progress, you're less afraid to step out of your comfort zone, try new things, and expand what you're capable of.

[00:03:50] So the next time you're faced with this or something new or challenging, remind yourself: This is a skill I am learning.

Action Steps for Continuous Growth
[00:04:00] Your action step today is to remember that every little effort adds to your growth. Progress isn't about being perfect. It's about showing up and practicing. You need to embrace the journey of learning each and every day and I bet you'll surprise yourself with what you're actually capable of.